\”No doubt I was going to give him my phone number. \” Actually, it wasn\’t really what he said to me. It was the manner in which he carried himself….\”
That is the conversation I overheard as I shamefully listened in to a conversation of three women on a train. I was really curious and also surprised by what I heard because I always thought you got a ladies phone number by what you say and not what your body language was doing.
Then I wearily remembered having read somewhere that all body language is subconscious and humbly acknowledged to myself that some guys have it and some don\’t.
I was about to discard this train of thought, when it occurred to me that I could check the internet about this and uncovered that, as stated by James Borg, \’ all human communication consists of 90-93 % body language…..and only 7-9 percent of our communication is created out of words themselves\’.
I was struck like a train by this comment. For what reason had I spent so much time working on what I said to women? In all reason it\’s because of all the films showing a guy pick up a woman with a cool chat up line. But how can we uncover more about body language?
Most of the time I\’m not that conscious of my body, but then there are other times when I feel really body-conscious, and I have to admit it\’s when I\’m feeling good about myself.
Is there anything we can actually do about our body language attraction? And if this actually works and is so powerful, is it worth the effort to try and change our body language to improve our confidence and ultimately our chances with the opposite sex?
I knew from personal experience that some of the most important spiritual movements since the birth of the 20th century, such as twelve step recovery and Landmark Education, all stress the importance of acting yourself into a new way of thinking.
So I supposed why on earth we couldn\’t do the same with body language?
And when you look at the huge percentage of our communication which is achieved through ours bodies, had anyone really looked into how to harness this power of body language to not only change our inner being but also to attract a mate. A new system called body language attraction.
I researched body language attraction on google and all the sites fell into the same boring unimaginative collection of info on body language until I found Rob Brinded\’s codeofthenatural.com.
Intrigued by the free video on offer on the \’top 10 secrets to reprogram your body language to trigger attraction in women\’, I purchased the very reasonably priced eBook and have been amazed by the results.
With just a handful of easily assimilated movements my confidence generally has gone through the roof, and I can\’t stop approaching women I\’m attracted to!
For me body language attraction has been totally missed as a concept, which for me is unbelievable – there really IS something extremely powerful this body language system.
It seems we humans have been slow to catch on to the clues that the animal world has been leaving us about how to attract the opposite sex. I\’m going to show a lot more respect to the stars of David Attenboroughs next documentary and look for more lessons that I can use in my world.
Locate different types of Body Language, on Rob Brinded\’s site, for example Body Language Attraction and other resources of interest.